Maybe teh gayz will have words for Joy Behar over this segment of The View. I don't really think she was saying anything offensive - it's not a shame to not practice monogamy, there's nothing morally wrong with relationships, gay or straight, that don't have big hang ups about that so long as everyone's honest. There's a difference between monogamy and fidelity.
I do wonder who Whoopi's friends are, since, from my experience, Joy's pretty much right. JMG implies that it's a generational thing, but, really, the younger generation of gay men are just as good at the monogamy as previous generations. We just think there's a difference because young gay men talk a bigger game when it comes to monogamy.