Mark S. King

Lesbian Lunch: Tabatha, Take Over My Life!

Filed By Mark S. King | February 06, 2011 11:30 AM | comments

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Tags: lesbian, television

For my final Lesbian Lunch, I'd like to admit the truth, so brace yourself. I have a total gay guy crush on Tabatha Coffey.

Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for TABATHA.JPGThe snow-haired vixen hosts Bravo's Tabatha's Salon Takeover with an icy stare and the confidence of stainless steel. Add an Australian accent and the woman has me thinking things that haven't crossed my mind since college, when the very adult Amy Stubnick put my hand on her breast and whispered "Ever been the boy toy for a real woman?" It was a compelling proposition, but I digress.

You get the Bravo channel, right? Home of Kathy Griffin and Chefs topping each other and Andy Cohen dishing with overwrought housewives? I do hope this post isn't over your head.

On each episode of the series, Tabatha visits a salon on the very brink of disaster that's in need of her management and artistic expertise. Or as she states during the opening in her strict, matter-of-fact manner, "I'm tough. I'm talented. I'm taking over." To which I dutifully respond, trapped in her spell, "Daddy."

The people behind the salon crisis typically fall within two categories: some poor sucker who's sister or best friend has convinced the sucker to invest in the salon and now they're at each other's throats and in horrible debt; or a shrill, mythical beast who rules the salon with a clueless fist and needs to be humbled... and is also in horrible debt.

tabby.JPGEnter Tabatha, who feigns interest in their pitiful lives just long enough to case the joint and then instruct them to "give me your keys. I'm taking over." Okay, I have goosebumps right now. I'm just sayin'.

Then the Tabatha magic really begins, as she calls out the lazy staff for their wretched work ethic or sloppy artistry. No one talks back to Tabatha, ever. Time would cease.

There is sometimes a woeful salon stylist, manacled to a station in the back and subsisting on drinks from the sink and thin mints, who has a genuine talent that only Tabatha can identify. Of course, the stylist touches the hem of Tabatha's smock and becomes a star employee by the end of the episode.

At some point Tabatha will play counselor to the owner/sucker and the stylist/best friend who is bleeding them of cash, and may I say, if my therapist would just be more like Tabatha and tell me what the hell to do, I wouldn't still be blathering on about becoming a realtor because "I hear there's money in that."

Thumbnail image for Tabatha Hunks.JPGOh, and the salon itself gets completely renovated shortly after Tabatha's gorgeous, investigative fingers wipe up a mound of dust or produce a hair ball from behind a counter the size of a grapefruit. Is anyone as shocked as I am at how many salons - Salons! Where gay people work! - haven't been redecorated since Olivia Newton John was dancing in leg warmers?

The episodes wrap up with a Grand Reopening, where the owners promise to mend their ways and the rescued, transformed stylists all stand there, heartsick, like the crowd waving goodbye to Dorothy as she floats off in a hot air balloon.

I need Tabatha so badly. She could do an entire season rebuilding my life. But that gig has been taken, it appears, by Tabatha Coffey's longtime lesbian partner. And to further wreck my Bravo flights of fancy, it turns out Tabatha is a very nice professional who makes her share of Gay Pride appearances, took the stage in My Big Fat Gay Wedding (above) as a lark, and has her own charity helping children with cancer.

I will hear no more of this. I prefer my delirious daydream every week in front of the television, when it is just me, a few hair balls, and Tabatha, taking over.

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Sounds like Kitchen Nightmares, where the restaurant owners have the same basic problems.

Sometimes I wish Ramsey would enter a restaurant that's just doing OK and help them do great. As the show works now, the restaurants have bugs crawling everywhere, food that's moldy, creepy waitstaff, etc., and I think wow, he's telling them not to serve moldy food. I'm sure it took years of training to understand that.

Then that's my problem with American Idol, where they only show the terrible auditions or the people they take. Rosie O'Donnell made the same observation: what about the people who are good and can sing but aren't great? I'd add: what about the people who sing in a different style that they don't want? And what about the people who have talent that could be developed?

Do they show any problem salons that aren't ridiculously terrible?

You need to interview Tabatha online so we can really see you lose your mind....LOL

How about a spoof where you are waiting for Tabatha to arrive for an interview and when she does, you're nervous and sweating. The interview begins as you just stare non-stop without asking any questions as you are in awe.

After a few minutes, someone taps you on the shoulder like her partner (for example) and says, "I have seen enough, give me your microphone, I'm taking over." and your replacement does the interview.

That would be hilarious!

I think this show is pretty legit