"Invite your family to the wedding. Because they love you and have accepted your partner, they may wish to attend. Remember, the concept of marriage equality is a very new one and not everyone adapts quickly to change. Regardless of whether they have a problem calling you married, the fact is you will be married according to the laws of your state. And that's what is important."
-- Jeanne Phillips, a.k.a. Dear Abby, advising a same-sex couple planning their wedding to invite, rather than exclude, relatives who haven't completely come around on marriage equality. Phillips is a well-known and outspoken supporter of marriage equality herself.